If you want to know how to win her back more than anything else at the moment, I may be able to help you here. I know how to win someone back. It doesn’t matter who ended it with who, I don’t know or need to know details to help you. I was in your position a while back and I know exactly how much it hurts.

The fact that we’d split up had totally taken over my life. It came as a shock to me as I (arrogantly) thought things were going great. As males, we tend to take our woman & relationship for granted after a while. And that sometimes results in our downfall.

When we broke up, I didn’t have the first clue how to get my wife back. I just knew I wanted to. I was doing all the things you are probably doing now. Mooching around the net looking for information. I was looking for a complete answer but all I was finding was little bits of the answer which I had no clue how to use.

I wasn’t daft enough to think I could win her back in a day with a magic trick or something. But I knew I needed a plan, something I could follow step by step. I was also well aware of the fact that if I didn’t do something quick she might be lost forever.

I discovered a website selling an ebook on making up after a split or divorce. I must admit my scam radar was at full bleep here. I decided to give it a go after watching a video of the guy selling it. As a salesman, he stunk a bit but I liked his ideas. I had nothing else to lose and maybe a lot to gain.

I didn’t really know what to expect but I certainly wasn’t expecting a section on psychological mind moves. Oh boy was I gonna lay some psycho babble mumbo jumbo on her. It actually turned out the psychological tactics were so subtle she never had a clue. It certainly wasn’t the deep hypnosis stuff I was worried it may been.

Although the mind games were subtle, they were very powerful. Much better than I expected. I used the systems advice to make contact with my ex again. They even outline just how to do this. Quite sneakily as well I might add. We met for coffee and from then on (following the system all the time) I was in control of every situation with my ex.

She didn’t realise I was subtly manipulating every situation. In fact she doesn’t know I’m still doing it now, and we’ve been back together for a long time. If we were to breakup again, which I doubt. I will be fully confident of getting back together pretty quickly.

You can pick one of two paths to take now if you want to win your ex back. Carry on aimlessly trying random things while all the while there’s a chance she will be gone for good. Usually with some smarmy dude on her arm. Or you can make it happen for yourself, learn how to win her back and then keep her.